I now feel much more relaxed about this. It is heart breaking to go back there and will for the pregnancy hormone to disappear when really all I want is for it to increase and be pregnant. He said my womb looked good. He may seem to be doing OK at the moment, but can I ask you, are you ready to take him back when the bubble breaks, with the possibility of exactly the same happening once again. But nearly 12 weeks on, my periods are fairly normal again and I feel pretty ok. It turns out it was the gestational sac of one twin. I did know i was pregnant. Luckily they let my partner in and we chose to go home and come back the next day for the injection. If a group you're in feels toxic and drama seems to be brewing constantly, find another group. He wasn't allowed into the hospital, and I didn't have the answers to his questions. Luckily, my surgery went without a hitch and my wife was allowed on the ward for an hour once I was back. I would love my child no matter what but doesn't everyone want healthy children, free of defects? My lab result had been lost, but they told me it was "most probably a chemical pregnancy". In the mean time I started bleeding, sort of like a light period. The doctor confirmed my pregnancy with a blood test and after a hours of waiting did a scan.
This was my first pregnancy. I was quickly taken back to casualty then within the hour, after a visit from different doctors and surgeons I was taken to theatre to have an emergency laparoscopy to remove the pregnancy. I Didn't Know I Was Pregnant And Here's My Story. Go ahead and be angry at the universe for the infertility issues you're experiencing. I was having obs done at the time and was told I needed to calm down because my pulse was too high - I mean, they could have given me these forms at any point, perhaps right before surgery wasn't the most sensible of options. On 22nd august, I had started bleeding and having a very sore stomach.
I'd previously fallen pregnant on cerazette with my second son) so I was still having my pill breaks and bleeding during the break like usual. Physically I have recovered well but know the emotional recovery will take longer. So unexpectedly I found myself looking for work after a 9 month break. As they suspected an ectopic pregnancy. The gynaecologist wasn't available and the doctor gave me the option of staying till the morning (a good 5-6 hours away) or going home and being booked in for an emergency scan. A week later I collapsed while out running, I managed to make it home and to bed, thinking that it may be appendicitis because the pain was focused on the lower right side. He told me he suspected it might be ectopic, told me to go to hospital NOW, told me my husband should go too as I shouldn't be alone. I rang 111, who got me an out of hours appointment, by which time the pain was very one sided. In younger women, cervical ectopy (the benign protrusion of the inner part of the cervix into the outer cervix) may also result in spotting. But who really cares about the fate of a parenting forum, no matter how beloved by its members? Most people don't know this, but if you take Plan B — also known as the morning after pill — after the fetus has already attached itself to the uterine wall, it won't do anything. How to Cope With Fertility Forum Drama. I feel angry, lonely and fobbed off by the professionals that were meant to take care of me. Funny thing is, the month before I was convinced I was pregnant and had all the symptoms, and then I wasn't. There are groups only for those with primary infertility or only for secondary infertility.