The whole family is very upset. So now on to the issue: my wife and I have a 2-year-old daughter. My brother somehow found out about my daughter's existence a few weeks ago. Judging you right now. My dad found out about this last week, but I got the award at the start of May. My older brother is not deaf and he's very close with my whole family. Over the years they attempted to make it appealing for me to live with them. My dad always liked my brother more. Aita for not telling my dad i got an award. I have faded from him over time. AITA for not telling my dad about an award I was getting in school? He could see that I was upset and asked me if it wasn't enough in an irritated tone. It wouldn't be healthy for her to be around people who constantly disrespect her parents.
I told him that I wanted to go out and he said he was busy but wanted the give me my graduation gift and he said he will transfer 5, 000 dollars to my account. I told him he could stay for me. When dad told me I begged him to stay. Aita for not telling my dad about an award nominees. They never bothered to get to know my wife either. They just won't believe that we're intelligent and perfectly capable people who have done well for ourselves all on our own. They blamed my wife because they think that she controls me, which is not true at all. That's another reason I keep them at arm's length.
I'm starting to wonder if my wife and I are selfish for keeping our daughter from a big family full of cousins her age because we have our own hang-ups about them. My wife (35F) and I (36M) live across the country from my family and we only visit for weddings, funerals and other big family-related events. Growing up they only did the bare minimum: fed me, clothed me, made small talk but they never actually tried to get to know me or do anything beyond that. He hasn't talked to me since it has happened and I wasn't invited to Thanksgiving or Christmas. He is the perfect son every parent would have wanted to have. That this was the last time and while I still love him and it hurts my heart that it has come to this, I can't keep doing it anymore, I asked him to not contact me again and I blocked him. Aita for not telling my dad about an award that young people can obtain. Despite all that, my family thinks that my wife's family takes care of us, i. e. help out financially, manage our finances and walk us through everyday tasks like buying groceries or paying bills.
When my wife was pregnant we decided that we didn't want any of my family in our daughter's life. My dad's wife didn't want to be apart from her oldest or to separate her three kids, so she wanted to move as well. I just feel like an ungrateful Asshole right now. My dad did asked about inviting her and I said no. We have a healthy bank account, we travel a lot and we're ready to buy a nice house but we're waiting for the housing market to cool down. In my rage, I called the hotel to cancel the room and I didn't told my dad. I told him what was the point, that his choice was made 9 years ago that they were more important and my life didn't involve them anymore.
Saying I'd have "siblings" all the time and how great it was there and stuff. We were supposed to leave today but when he came to pick me up, my step-sister was there, he said it was a surprise since ''both of his girls'' were graduating, apparently she begged him to come with us and he agreed, saying that she could get his bed and he'll sleep on the floor between us. I only speak to him during court mandated times, and I don't see him unless I absolutely have to. My school only put the photos up a week ago and my dad was really upset. They accused me of denying my daughter a family that could've helped raise her in many different ways. That regardless of how I feel he has a right to know. My brother got a scholarship while I barely got into my college and he had to pay all the fees.
I told him I wasn't trying to hurt him but that I was never going to have that relationship he wants after he left me to be with "his family" and that all choices have consequences which he and my mom taught me and that he is now living with his, in that his daughter doesn't want a relationship with him anymore. Yet my family still reveres him as a smart and capable person. I have a successful career, and so does my wife, and we've been completely on our own since college. So he moved with them and then I went from seeing him all the time to seeing him for a few weeks in the summer.
It was not like he got a full ride and they didn't spent anything on his education. My (17F) parents divorced ten years ago because my dad cheated on my mom. As for my mom I explained her everything and after much crying from both parts, she apologized and hugged me because she didn't know. My dad didn't even want to go out with me. My dad found out via Facebook about the award. When they arrived he tried to check in and when he couldn't, he called me, I only said ''yeah, I cancelled it. '' My dad bought my brother a very expensive watch and paid for his trip to Europe when he graduated. He went on about him being my dad and deserving to know and how proud he was, etc, and why couldn't I see, why was I out to hurt him. I was honestly really excited so I offered to pay for the hotel reservation because I wanted to feel mature (lo) my dad said no a bunch of times but I ended up convincing him. My mom and I will be having a getaway weekend to the spa and my dad said he would take me to the beach. I told him that it wasn't as he didn't even know what I liked to buy something I would like and I was getting way less than my brother got as always. I never forgave him for moving. ETA: They paid for my brother's apartment and living expenses when he was in college.
They didn't even learn sign language for me. We're in our 30s, and they still treat us like children. He sent me a long text apologizing and my mom said that what I did wasn't okay and that I owe them an apology, apparently they're on their way back because they couldn't find an hotel. He told me he had to be with his family and that them staying was not an option.
Julia and I'll be graduating this summer, I got an early acceptance to my college of choice and when I told my parents, both decided to do something to celebrate. I told him I didn't want his money and left. He doesn't have his life together. We hate it, especially my wife who has purposefully not visited them since 2017. He's a narcissist who has always treated me poorly and my family enables his bad behavior. We keep her off social media and I visited them only once since she was born, but she stayed home with my wife. His oldest stepkids dad was moving for work and she wanted to move with him, and the courts said that she could.
My dad sent a long text and told me that I would have gotten something better if I had studied harder. I won't lie, I really enjoyed it, I could really talk with my dad, do fun stuff and be around him without having to wait for my stepbrothers to stop talking to him or anything. He probably spend more than 25, 000 dollars on his graduation. Before that I was a total daddy's girl, I adored him and I was glued to his hip, my mom encouraged me to keep a relationship with him after they split, his new wife family never paid much attention to me, they weren't mean nor good, but at first I always had to share my dad with them whenever I visited.
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